Supporting Trans and Nonbinary Youth
This page is for youth-serving adults and organizations that want to better support trans and nonbinary young people, especially those who have experienced violence, harm, or instability. It offers starting points, trusted resources, and role-specific guidance for building safer, more affirming support.
Trans and nonbinary young people have always existed. Trans people can become aware of and express their gender at any age. Some know and share their gender early, some wait until later, and some do not have language for their experience until adulthood. All of these experiences are common and valid.
Trans and nonbinary young people consistently report that affirming adults, supportive peers, and safe places to turn can improve their well-being. Young people who have experienced violence or harm also emphasize the importance of being believed, respected, and supported by trusted people and organizations.
Youth-serving organizations play a variety of roles in the lives of trans and nonbinary survivors. Choose the page that best matches your role or setting; each section offers concrete ways to build safety, trust, and affirmation for young people.
Where to start: External resources to learn about trans and nonbinary youth
In addition to the introduction sections of this toolkit, these resources can help youth-serving adults and organizations build shared understanding and practical skills:
Movement Advancement Project — Advancing Acceptance infographic: A visual overview of affirming practices for families, communities, and youth-serving adults.
Advocates for Trans Equality — Youth and families: Information about issues affecting trans young people and their families.
The Trevor Project — Guide to being an ally to transgender and nonbinary youth: Practical guidance for affirming language, support, and allyship.
National Center for LGBTQ Rights — Transgender youth: Legal and advocacy resources related to transgender young people.
Trauma-informed support for young people
One of the most important ways adults can support young people is by understanding the impact of trauma and creating consistent, nurturing connections. These resources offer additional guidance:
National Child Traumatic Stress Network: Research-informed resources on trauma, healing, and support for children and young people.
Changing Minds: Tools and guidance for adults who want to help young people heal from trauma through supportive relationships.
Use the links above to explore the guidance most relevant to your role, and return to these resources as you build safer, more affirming support for trans and nonbinary young people.